• variants@possumpat.io
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    2 years ago

    Yeah I’ve noticed at least a lot from my high-school group that dating for about 4 years is a good amount of time, me personally and a lot of close friends seemed to have hit their hardships in a relationship around that 4 year mark. Also moving is a good test about how you do in stress haha

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      2 years ago

      Been married for 10 years now. There’s one thing I’ve found to be the ultimate relationship tester:

      Furniture Assembly.

      If you can survive assembling a few pieces of IKEA puzzles together it’s probably going to last XD

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        2 years ago

        Our way of surviving furniture assembly is for him to Go Away And Let Me Do It, because I can follow directions and he just tries to slap things together without looking xD

        I love my husband! Knowing when to just let the other person get on with shit is a pretty good litmus test, I agree, lol.