I’m not just saying this because you said you’re a woman but I liked https://nostarch.com/smartgirlsguide

For my friends with kids about to use the internet without restriction I’ve been getting them copies so they have something to refer to if they need it. It’s a good overview and leads to books better suited for specific topics.

The books from this guy have also been pretty helpful: https://inteltechniques.com/books.html

Kind of sad to see this.