• AeroLemming@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    Then maybe you shouldn’t go. It’s a funeral and they’re children. When my uncle died when I was young, my grandmother made me look at his dead body and it was terrible. I wish I had never gone to that fucking funeral. Nothing about it brought me any sort of closure and the only real memories I still have from going are purely negative.

    Children have no place in funerals.

    • explodicle@local106.com
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      1 year ago

      Ok, then replace “funeral” with any family function you need to attend. Should your kids miss school on Friday and Monday to drive to and from a weekend wedding?

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          1 year ago

          It’s already parents vs childfree in this thread, and I have to admit it’s a bit entertaining, but do we really want to bring the fuckcars people into this as well?

          • AeroLemming@lemm.ee
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            1 year ago

            It’d be fun, though. Road trips were always more enjoyable than sitting on a fucking plane for hours when I was a kid.

            • ANGRY_MAPLE@sh.itjust.works
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              Yeah, I don’t care either way on this “kids vs no kids” on a plane, but I used to love road trips SO much. It let me see many new cool things that I wouldn’t have otherwise.

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      1 year ago

      Kids exist in the world. Get over it. You’re the adult in the situation.